Journeying Beyond Pet Loss with Beth Bigler, Part 2
Beth Bigler is a double-certified Pet Loss Grief Counselor, certified end-of-life animal companion doula and pet chaplain. She works with individuals and families before, during, and after the loss of their beloved animal companions. She’s also known for her Instagram account @honoringouranimals where she shares inspirational and empowering daily content and tips about pet loss grief which are a unique blend of humor, compassion, and “telling it like it is.” She works closely with animal care workers, veterinary professionals, and other pet industry brands on grief training and awareness and is a regular contributor to podcasts, articles, and other media.
The anticipated and eventual loss of Beth’s soulmate cat, Arnie, led her to seek out her own pet loss grief support, which profoundly aided her healing. It was lifesaving and transformative. In the middle of that process, she had the opportunity to help a stranger at the vet’s office who faced an unexpected euthanasia decision. She realized that she wanted to help others integrate loss into their lives and empower them on their grief journey.
Beth is also a seasoned film/television professional, college instructor, and mom of a son and two fantastic felines!.
Every one of us who has loved and lost a pet knows the profound ache that follows. As host, I joined hands with pet loss and grief counselor Beth Bigler to traverse the tender paths of mourning our cherished animal companions. Our conversation spans the emotional spectrum, offering solace in shared experiences and practical advice for those dark times. From the therapeutic release found in art and movement to the comfort of community and rituals, we provide a heartfelt guide to navigating this deeply personal journey.
When Steve's cat friends faced life without him, their world was turned upside down – a testament to the deep bonds we form with our pets. In this candid discussion, we uncover the layers of pet grief and the interventions that can ease their suffering. I recount the story of how Steve's feline friends, through engagement and new companions, found their way back to a semblance of normalcy, and how Butters, a new arrival, brought fresh joy to the household. Beth and I also tackle the delicate decision of when the heart is ready to welcome a new pet, ensuring that any new addition is a step towards healing, not a replacement for the one lost.
And in those final moments, should other pets be present? This episode doesn't shy away from the tough questions. We delve into the contemplative space of home euthanasia, sharing personal stories and professional insights to aid in making this heart-wrenching decision. Beth opens up about her own pets, Arnie and Zelda, and their unique goodbyes, reinforcing that there's no uniform approach to such farewells. Whether you're honoring milestone days or grappling with PTSD symptoms after a pet's passing, join us in recognizing that grief is a journey we don't simply move on from – we move with it, step by step, day by day.
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